Day 03 | Heartcore

To four miraculous little tots in my life

Hi my darlings! 

Have you all grown up guys?  Tall and strong like ayah and eyang papa? 

This is just a little silly note from your sister, and auntie.

Pray five times a day. I promise you things will get much better than just better soon. | Smile, even though it becomes difficult to do. | Study hard, read a lot. | Be flexible in selecting books and newspapers to read, but don't let their perspectives and opinions dictate yours. | Be intelligent and witty. However, do joke about your silly sides at times to help you remain humble.| Be brave and strong, but it's also alright to cry sometimes when you want to. | Don't be mean or inconsiderate. | Always be kind and respond nicely to your parents, sisters and brother, no matter what. If you have a hard time to do this, walk away, don't yell at them. Sspend a few hours alone to retain that rational mind before you speak your mind and let them know how you feel. | Exercise self-discipline and be self-dependent. Give your mom a fine day as a start, of many days to come, by cleaning up your own rooms, keep dirty clothes in the hamper, put all books, magazines, shoes, cosmetics, stuffed animals or toys, and CDs back where they belong. | Don't base your judgements on prejudice and assumptions, much less circulate these sorts of things. Because what you hear will only be one side of many. | Never ever do something just because other people do, if you feel it is the wrong thing to do. | Work hard and be optimistic, instead of being plain ambitious. | Understand that beauty has everything to do with how you feel about yourself, the good attitude you present, and has little to do with other people's opinions or standard on outer looks. | Listen more, talk less. This will enrich you with valuable lessons and profound wisdom. | Learn not only from your own mistakes and failures, but also the essence of others'. | Apologize for each mistake you've made, instead of pointing to other directions. | Maintain a good sense of respect with your close friends, in words and actions. | State your objections and disagreements in the most subtle manner, just like rational beings who live life with a good heart and peace of mind. Or come up with white lies, instead of saying horrible things behind other people's back. | Worthwhile achievement happens through a journey, not in a single day. | Be compassionate to struggling strangers. | Pet kittens and maybe puppies too. | Don't be easily discouraged to try something new. | Always stay true to yourself and others. | Don't get easily buttered up by guys or trust any guy for that matter, until the worst of what you think about them is proven wrong. | Stand up for what is right. | Don't ever smoke. This includes any kind of materials or substances that creates a severe case of addiction. | Avoid making rash or hasty decisions, which will leave you with a bad feeling in the tummy, and impair your ability to plan or have a bright and clean future. | Respond to a kiss on the lips, or kiss her on the lips, is where you draw the limit. If you sense a higher urge, please get him to marry you, or please marry her first. | Learn to be mindful of the needs of others, instead of focusing to get what you need or want. | Lastly, you're not allowed to forget that I adore and love you guys. Til forever and ever after, I'll always be this fantastic four gang's number one fan. |